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New Method 17 | Filter Your Myths

Sharmadean Reid

25 Apr 2025 — 2 min read

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We confront and dismantle entrenched narratives to challenge the very foundations of a patriarchal system that has endured for millennia. It is a call to re-examine the stories we hold dear and question the values they perpetuate. We remind ourselves that while myths may be timeless, our capacity for critical reflection and change is boundless. In this ongoing struggle for gender equity and justice, it is imperative that we unmask the patriarchal myths that have masqueraded as beloved stories and reshape the narratives that define our collective future.

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Question the Stories: Reflect on myths or narratives you’ve internalised—like the "damsel in distress" trope. Watch films like Enola Holmes or Moxie on Netflix for empowering alternatives.
Reframe the Values: Pick a classic story or myth you love (e.g., Cinderella) and rethink its values. How could it be rewritten with a modern, equity-focused lens?
Curate New Narratives: Build a watchlist featuring empowering perspectives, such as Hidden Figures, The Woman King, or Becoming to explore inspiring narratives.

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